£ 65 - £ 90
Perfect for a standard venue.
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Frequently Asked Wedding Gift Questions
For cousins, the 2026 guideline is typically between £60-£80 and £110-£150. For casual weddings, £60-£80 are common, for standard venues £85-£115. For very close family bonds, £150+ is also possible.
Guests who join after the wedding breakfast ("evening guests") typically give less. An amount between £35-£45 per person is considered appropriate here and usually covers the drink costs.
In many regions, guests orient themselves by the costs they incur. Currently, location, catering, and drinks for a classic wedding cost about £90-£160 per guest. The goal is often to cover this amount with the gift.
Cash gifts are most popular for weddings since the couple can buy exactly what they really need. Physical gifts are only recommended if you know their specific wishes.
As best man or maid of honour you already invest time and often money in planning and the stag or hen do. A cash gift is still common. A practical range is £115-£155. The calculator accounts for that effort so the envelope alone does not need to be huge.
Typical guest wedding gifts are usually well within standard annual small-gift exemptions and wedding gift allowances set by HMRC. This is general orientation only, not legal or tax advice.
As a couple the amount does not simply double, but it tracks two guests. For friends, £115-£155 is a common floor. Closer friends or relatives often give £185-£250 as a couple.
Yes, that is widely accepted. If you travel far and pay for your own hotel, you can usually reduce the gift by about £10. Couples appreciate the effort of showing up.
A Gentle Reminder
This recommendation is based on current social etiquette guidelines and regional gifting traditions.
Please remember: these numbers are a guide, not a rule. Your presence and the memories you make together are what truly matter. Financial abilities vary for many reasons, and a thoughtful gesture always outweighs a price tag. Choose the amount that aligns with your comfort and celebrate the love.
Note: Because social etiquette is subjective and trends evolve rapidly, these figures are estimates and may not perfectly reflect current norms, specific local traditions, or individual expectations.